50 Ways to Spark Attraction and Desire in Women
From my dating and relationship experiences I’ve learned there are many things men can say and do that are such a turn on, and do not involve any sexual acts. Women can be attracted and aroused mentally and emotionally. Which is great news if you’re a man wanting to pursue a woman because her desire towards you doesn’t just come down to your looks or sexual skills.
When I think back over all my past experiences and men I have met I was able to come up with a list of things they either said or did that sparked attraction and desire in me.
Keep in mind not every woman will be attracted to the same things, so it is also important to ask your current partner what turns them on or watch their body language when you do certain things to get feedback on what uniquely sparks desire in them.
Here is my list of 50 ways to spark attraction and desire in women:
Complimenting her appearance and saying “you look pretty, sexy, or beautiful”
Picking her up and wrapping her legs around your waist
Ask her questions, show you want to get to know her and not hide it
Gently stroke her face and push her hair behind her ear
Be impressed by her
Ask her on a proper date and make the plans
Call or text the day after a date
Share with her “I’m looking for my future wife” (if those are your true intentions)
Grab her with power and clear direction while dancing together
Watch her dance
Seductively look her up and down
Hug her until she relaxes and your breath syncs
Play with her pets or be caring towards animals
Push her against a wall while kissing
Pin her arms above her head
Press your body against hers and breath down her neck
Help her if she asks for it or you can tell she needs it
Call her sweetheart, babe, my goddess or other cute names
Pick her up before a date
Be vulnerable with her
Pay the bill with assertiveness and no hesitation
Listen attentively and remember what she shared
When you feel carnal, primal desire for her show it through your embodiment
There are many other women around but your focus & attention is locked on her
Truly see her
Share you love spending time with her
Tell her you love your conversations and exploring each others minds
Be kind, sweet and genuine
Encourage her to express more of her full range of emotions and multi-dimensionality
Thoughtful acts of service
Compliment her mind, energy, heart, courage etc.
Walk her home at night to ensure she is safe
Open the door for her
Purposely walk on the outside of the street closer to traffic to be protective
Tell her “I cherish you, I’m here for you,”
Tell her “I can’t wait to see you again, I keep thinking about you”
Tell her “Family is my world and I can’t wait to have kids”
Tell her “I’m grateful for you or I appreciate you”
Claim her and say “I don’t want you dating anyone else, I want you to be my girlfriend”
Introduce her to your family and friends
Tell her “you are sunshine in my life”
Give lots of physical affection
Tell her she has the most gorgeous body, smile, eyes etc.
Tell her “Let’s travel and live together” and then share a plan to make it happen
Dress well
Smell good and wear cologne
Be driven, ambitious and have a purpose you are passionate about
Let her know you want to meet her family and friends
Be enthusiastic to try new activities and go on adventures with her
Be calm, grounded and relaxed to be around
Ladies share with your partner which ones from this list spark attraction and desire for you - give him the cheat codes! 😉 And men if you are reading this, share it with your partner and get curious what ones excite her the most. Or try a few of these tips out next time you meet someone you are romantically interested in.
Cheers to women being seduced in ways that actually feel good to them! 💋